In the days before online dating, being "exclusive" with your lover meant you'd cease to date and sleep with other people. But now, with the kaleidoscopic array of dating apps at our finger tips, the lines between what does and does not constitute cheating have blurred. A swipe here, a message there — these are the acts that lead to dates, dalliances and, sometimes, deep, meaningful relationships.
Who truly wants to go outside to find people? While the convenience of meeting potential mates from your couch is great and all, it also means there's the chance that your current fling could be chatting with other women or men on Tinder while they're sitting right next to you. Here, 11 women open up about what it was like to discover their partners were on dating apps. Fast forward a few nights... He had been spelling his name differently so I wouldn't be able to find him.